And the Wounds You’re Actually Fighting Most couples assume their struggles come down to communication, stress, or incompatible needs. If they could just talk more clearly, slow down, or meet each other halfway, things would finally feel easier. But for many people, the confusion runs deeper than that. They love each other. They are committed. They are trying. And yet the same emotional collisions keep repeating: the same arguments, the same shutdowns, the same feeling of bei
