Conscious Love Blueprint
Human Design for Relationships
Expert Human Design readings and coaching for couples who want to stop struggling and start thriving.
The Conscious Love Blueprint
Human Design for Conscious Relationships
Modern relationships are not failing because people do not love each other.
They are struggling because we are trying to love through conditioning instead of truth.
We are taught how to communicate, how to compromise, how to meet in the middle.
But very few of us are ever taught how our energy actually works in a relationship.
We overextend. We shut down. We take things personally that were never meant to be. We lose desire. We repeat the same arguments with different people. And eventually we start wondering if something is wrong with us or our partner.
There isn’t. There is simply a missing blueprint.
Why Human Design Changes Love
Human Design shows you how you are wired to love, bond, initiate, respond, retreat, desire, and decide.
It reveals:
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Why certain partners feel magnetic and others feel exhausting
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Why communication breaks down even when both people care
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Why one person needs time and the other needs immediacy
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Why desire comes and goes
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Why resentment builds quietly
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Why the same relationship patterns keep repeating
When you understand your design and the design of the person you are relating to, the story shifts from blame to clarity. There is no blame, shame, or guilt about the energy you or your partner brings to the relationship. You stop asking, What is wrong with us? And start asking, How do we actually work?
This is the heart of The Conscious Love Blueprint.
What This Work is Really About
Every family receives a completely customized experience.
This is not about fixing yourself.
This is not about diagnosing your partner.
This is not about becoming more accommodating or more patient or more spiritual.
This work is about alignment.
Alignment between:
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Your energy and your partner’s energy
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Your nervous system and their nervous system
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Your desire and their timing
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Your inner truth and your outward expression
When alignment is restored, intimacy becomes natural again.
Communication softens.
Defensiveness dissolves.
And love stops feeling like work.
What You Will Learn
Through Human Design and relationship energetics, you will understand:
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Your energy type in relationships and how it is meant to interact with others
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Your decision-making process and why timing matters so much in love
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Emotional dynamics and how defined and undefined centers create chemistry or conflict
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Masculine and feminine polarity through energetic design rather than gender roles
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Sexual and intimacy patterns through gates, centers, and circuitry
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Why you feel triggered in certain dynamics and how to respond differently
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How to stop abandoning yourself to keep the peace
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How to love in a way that feels safe, embodied, and alive
This work applies whether you are partnered, dating, single, healing from the past, or consciously creating what comes next.
Who This is For
This work is for you if:
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You are tired of repeating the same relationship patterns
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You feel deeply but struggle to feel understood
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You crave intimacy without losing yourself
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You want relationships that feel grounded, safe, and alive
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You are ready to relate from truth rather than conditioning
You do not need to have all the answers.
You only need a willingness to see yourself clearly.
What This Work Provides
This is not therapy. This is not coaching in the traditional sense. This is energetic intelligence for the modern relationship, a framework that creates understanding where there has been confusion, closeness where there has been distance, and compassion where there has been pressure.
Love does not have to be confusing.
It does not have to feel heavy.
It does not have to require self abandonment.
When you understand the design beneath your relationships, everything softens.
This is not about becoming someone new.
It is about remembering who you already are in love.
Choose the pathway that feels right for your body.
Your design knows.
Option One
Our Group Journey begins January 12, 2026
An 8-week live group experience where we explore Human Design for relationships together in a supportive, honest, grounded space. Details:
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8 weeks starting January 12th
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Mondays, 6:00–7:30 pm EST
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Live teaching, discussion, and integration
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Space for questions and real-life application
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Recordings available if you miss a call
This option is ideal if you want:
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Community and shared reflection
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To learn alongside others navigating similar themes
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A gentle and affordable entry point into this work
You do not need to share personal details if you do not want to. You are always welcome exactly where you are.
Option Two
Private Coaching
For those who desire privacy, depth, and customized guidance, this pathway offers the full blueprint through a private container. Together we will work directly with:
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Your Human Design
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Your partner’s design if applicable
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Your specific relationship patterns and questions
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Your nervous system and emotional landscape
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Your history, triggers, and desires
This option is ideal if you want:
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Confidential, personalized support
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Deeper exploration of sensitive dynamics
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Focused attention on one relationship or pattern
1 hr 30 min
Option Three
The Blueprint in Written Form
If you prefer to move at your own pace, this option offers a comprehensive written relationship report based on Human Design. This report can be created for:
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You and a partner
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You and a past relationship
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You and a potential relationship
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Or as a tool for understanding your patterns in love
Includes:
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Energy type dynamics
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Communication and timing insights
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Emotional and nervous system compatibility
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Attraction and intimacy themes
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Strengths, challenges, and conscious pathways forward
This option is ideal if you want:
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Insight without live sessions
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Something tangible to return to
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A clear map of your relational design
Couples Transformations
Real stories. Real shifts. Real alignment.
When people begin living according to their design, everything changes. Their relationships soften, their energy stabilizes, and life starts to feel like it’s finally moving with them instead of against them.
Here are a few quotes from the souls who have walked this path:
Marriage Saved Through Understanding
We were quietly preparing for a divorce. We loved each other but could not communicate without conflict. Our sessions with Hilery showed us the mechanics of our emotional patterns: what was ours, what wasn’t, and why we were triggering each other. For the first time, we could see the truth without blame. She didn’t just save our marriage. She helped us understand each other’s hearts.
It's finally getting easier!
I cried while reading this. Not because it was painful, but because it finally made sense. For the first time, I felt like our struggles were understandable, not personal failures.
No More Blame, Shame, or Guilt
Hilery gave us a language that removed blame from our relationship. Instead of arguing about who was ‘right,’ we learned how our energies naturally interact. Conflicts that used to last hours now dissolve in minutes. We finally feel like we are on the same team.
This did not feel like a reading. This felt like someone finally saw us.
Going through the Conscious Love Blueprint completely changed the way we understand each other. So many of the patterns we used to fight about suddenly made sense. We stopped taking things personally and started seeing how our energy actually works in relationship. The private coaching gave us a safe space to talk about things we never could before without shutting down or getting defensive. Conversations that once felt impossible now feel honest and connecting. Our relationship feels lighter, clearer, and more compassionate.
An essential tool for every relationship.
I wish we had this years ago. It would have saved us so much pain. Even now, it is helping us rebuild with more honesty and softness. It has made our relationship struggles easier to talk about. Instead of arguing about who is wrong, we look at how our energy interacts. That alone changed everything.
Emotional intellegence for the whole family.
Human Design gave us clarity we didn’t know we were missing. We now understand why one parent needs space while the other needs connection, and how to communicate without triggering survival responses.
This work strengthened every relationship in our family.
I'm Hilery Hutchinson
Human Design specialist, relationship guide, and conscious living mentor serving clients in Guatemala and worldwide.
With 60+ certifications and 20+ years of experience, I help you decode your energetic blueprint so you can:
✓ Understand why your relationships feel stuck
✓ Parent your children according to their true nature
✓ Make aligned decisions with clarity and confidence
✓ Release patterns of frustration, resentment, and burnout
✓ Live in flow instead of forcing life to work
Whether you're navigating complex family dynamics or seeking transformation from anywhere in the world, I offer Human Design guidance that goes deep.
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